Wednesday, 21 October 2026

The Patriarchy in Northern Europe

When I met up with my non-binary German friend in their homeland this year, they complained about gender stereotypes that they regularly encounter, from the perspective of someone who is perceived as a cis woman. 

My friend is an excellent driver, and since they enjoys it, they are often the one behind the wheel when travelling with their partner. Their partner is perceived as a cis man, and while he is gender non-conforming, he is also more or less cisgender. When they is driving, they make very few mistakes, but often receive harsh reprimands from other drivers when they do. When it's his turn behind the wheel, he is more likely to make a mistake, but always receives less of a negative reaction than they do. 

This reminded me of a Swedish filmic text I viewed on Netflix, where a cis woman drives her fiancé to her parents' hometown, and their stay goes from one disaster to the next, which is attributed to the unnatural state of women as drivers. A man literally said something like "this is what happens when you let a woman drive" as a way to end the TV episode (or was it film). 

It's not fair. My non-binary friend and people like them experience stress, anger, sadness, and miss out on boosts to their self-confidence for doing a job well done (in this case, being an excellent driver). It does help that their partner is a feminist who is aware of the unfairness, but I think we can agree Germany and Sweden are not gender equal yet. Like every country on earth, they have room for improvement. 

It helps, to remember that Northern Europe doesn't have it all sorted. While I continue to learn from their good example, I am reminded that Australia, too, has its achievements in lessening gender inequality, and the combined inspiration from these two regions keeps me going. 

Sunday, 4 October 2026

A Flaneur in Wien - Part 3

I didn't start out my journey on the D tram thinking I would get off at Schwarzenberg. Mysteriously, the ticket machine onboard the vehicle ceased to accept my Visa card, so I decided to shorten my ride by one stop. 

This deposited me within a stone's throw of Karlsplatz, where I had circled around St Charles' Church before. My mum had given me tips on the area in the meanwhile, so I knew the Karlsplatz Art Nouveau train station was somewhere around there. Before I knew what was happening, I chanced upon the Musikverein, a beige and red building which housed concerts, amongst other things. Admiring the stately structure with its inbuilt statues and curlicues (along with some Asian tourists), I noticed brightly coloured advertisements for 'Der Klein Prinz' (The Small Prince) and some other performance for children one building over. This led me to discover that the New State Opera was right there, attached to the much bigger Albertina Modern. I made a note to return. There were a few minutes until opening time anyway. 

Karlsplatz station was easy to locate, on the edge of the park across the road, and I let it work its magic on me... a bold combination of white, mint and gold, with floral themes and enigmatic symbols. The golden lines glowed in the sunlight, and looked charming where there was dappled shade. The micro museum inside the station opened while I was there, but I preferred to stay outside and let the visuals mesmerise me. 

After 30-45 minutes I decided to go back to the Schwarzenberg Café and enjoy a sweet treat. Live jazz inside had drawn a queue, so I chose a cherry strudel "to go" and snacked in the park, overlooking St Charles' Church and enjoying the fresh air. This strudel was a juicy red, bursting with flavour. (They don't make them like this in Australia, so I enjoyed every bite.)

The Albertina Modern blends right into Wien's wedding cake facades, but it has actually been a self-consciously avant-garde institution since the end of the second world war, when it shook off the censorship imposed by the Nazis. The space incorporated frequent international exhibitions into its repertoire, from India to Egypt, US to Bulgaria and more. 

I entered another flow state upon letting my eye rest on geometric patterns by Vasarely. Whether monochrome or in contrasting colours (like blue and red), there was enough variation amongst the repetition to reward a dancing eye. I also liked neon yellow and red signs declaring 'anything goes' and 'light up', a kind of decontextualised, comic-friendly and possibly commercialised splash of colour in a room of white. I was reminded of Robyn's song 'Light up,' which is about developing a heartfelt connection with someone. I thought about my friends and past relationships, some in Europe, others in Austraila, their light informing mine, and vice versa. 

Perhaps my favourite part of the Albertina Modern was the interior walls and ceilings in the centre of the structure. Cream and royal blue. Curved, triangle-esque additions to the corners, similar in shape to the Art History Museum's, but with curlicues and patterns mostly inspired by nature. Whether admired from the staff-less café on the ground floor, or on the mezzanine level, or perhaps while walking between them on the staircase, it was riveting. Smaller in scale than most all-encompassing architectural designs made in Wien, it lent itself to a more comfortable mental space. 

The gallery had a restaurant attached, where I had a chicken salad and called my Mum. Out in the open air, I was facing something called the Handelakademie, which Mum translated into "Trade Academy". Statues of Adam Smith and Christopher Columbus flanked the entrance. This building, also, was rewarding to the wandering eye, a rather large, sandy-coloured institution. The small street which divided it and the Albertina Modern was pedestrianised and a couple of tram routes traversed it. I admired my surroundings (the Karlsplatz station and park was visible in the background), and felt lucky that the day had unfolded so sweetly.

On the way back to my tram stop I noticed that a carousel of sizeable but elegant, baby pink horses had been set up in the yard of the New State Opera. The small outdoors area also contained a stage, and bench-like seating, where two men were sharing a word. Noticing an official-looking guard, I asked him what was happening, and apparently there would be two events designed for young children that day, at 3:30pm and 7pm. The kids could ride the carousel for a fee while listening to music by the official State Opera, play with each other or sit with their parents for free, and anyone could join. "They get them while they're young," I mused to myself, impressed with the respect for the youngest Wien citizens. They are lucky to be brought up in a city where music informs everyday culture so deeply. 


Saturday, 3 October 2026

When Vienna became 'Wien', Part 2

Departing Julius Meinl am Graben, I followed my nose away from the crowds, noticing that the lyrical cadences of Italian often made their way into my ears on these streets. Ducking into an art gallery on a small but visually alluring lane, I was again greeted by the sounds of a middle-aged Italian couple enthusing with the owner. There was only one painting in the whole place that was worth my attention, but it made me smile: a single smooth, thick black brushstroke curving from the top to the bottom of a mid-sized canvas. It was called 'Cascade' and the artist's name sounded like a woman. I once started writing a poem on my blog called 'Cascade', and was reminded of its experimental qualities as I viewed the chiaroscuro.

Back into the dreamy lane of creams, yellows and light greens, I noticed a bakery which looked like it catered for locals, and noticed an architectural vision in pale pink, white and gold at the end ahead. This is how I made my way into Judenplatz ('Jewish square'), where I felt a discrepancy between the sombre signs (detailing antisemitic violence in the Middle Ages) and a sobering, boxy tribute to victims of the Holocaust in the centre, and the otherwise pretty, peaceful and potentially lively space it was today. It's true that I didn't go to the Jewish Museum there, as it was closed at the time. 

I never did find out much about the pastel pink building which appealed to me so much. A nearby waiter couldn't tell me anything about it, and I'm yet to google the sign on its side I took a picture of. I noticed two eagles, which I associate with Austrian imperialism and nationalism, so I hope that, whatever institution it houses, it's one that is responsive to the Jews. The whole square was full of picturesque architecture.

Unlike the busy Graben, Judenplatz was mostly quiet, with only a scattering of people, including a handful of tourists. The next day I would find an even smaller square, Schulhof, where a synagogue had stood before being burnt down, and I could rest for a while on a public bench. My view included grand gates flanked by two muscular, nude men, the back of a small church, the Clock Museum and horse-drawn carriages passing by on the cobblestones every 3 minutes. Signs of local life drifted by: older women walking their dogs, elderly couples dressed in their best, besuited men, and the chatter of young colleagues on their work break. 

I chose Ofenloch restaurant on my first day of the area, a typical Austrian establishment back in the cream, yellow and light green lane, which allowed me to prepare to see Vivaldi's Four Seasons in the nearby St Peter's Church. My mum had recommended this free organ concert, and I was seated behind an American-looking family which seemed hopeful, uplifted. The familiar music imbued the space with a cosiness and made my gaze playful as it drifted from angels to warriors, gold to pink, angle to curve. 

Retracing my steps to catch the D tram y the Opera House, I was thankful for Wien's convenient public transport, and my luck in securing the same hotel (near the Central Train Station) the third time round. This allowed me to develop a familiarity with my surroundings, and return to the locations mentioned with ease. 

*More to come*

When Vienna became 'Wien'

You see and hear it many times: the local name of the city in which you're travelling. It's easier to get the hang of some names ('Roma' for Rome) and more difficult with others ('Warsaw' is pronounced "Varshava"). "Veen" sounds different to the way most English speakers read 'Wien', and in my jet-lagged and disoriented state, late July, I couldn't cross over. Sometime around the 5th day (for I gave myself 4 full days in September) it seemed to suit my growing familiarity with the subject matter. 

I wanted to be a flâneur in Wien because the city is so walkable and there are over 900 UNESCO World Heritage buildings in it. Basically, if you deposit yourself in or around the Innere Stadt (one of the oldest neighbourhoods) and leisurely walk around, you're sure to bump into something interesting, historical, beautiful. So I let random discovery shape the day. 

I entered 'flow' states (where you get lost in the moment) while taking in the Karlsplatz train station (an Art Nouveau structure in white, spearmint and gold), viewing the Albertina Modern (Vasarely's optical illusions drew the eye and inspired a sense of play after a while), admiring a luxury supermarket called Julius Meinl am Graben (where I also had my first melange [the local type of coffee]), trying marzipan-coffee cake in the lesser-known, cosy Frauenhuber café, and, to some extent, enjoying the aesthetics of the Judenplatz (a square of significance to the Jewish community) and the areas immediately around it. 

On that first day in September I spotted a expansive canvas full of movement, with blues and reds particularly fetching on a background of white. Amongst the many shades of most of the rainbow's colours were highlights in yellow and pink. Some parts were stark, the others delicate. A charismatic blend of vivid shapes and delicate details. The art dealer handed me a compilation of the best of Sinasi Bozatli's works, which I eagerly devoured later in my hotel. He had been born in Istanbul before migrating to Vienna for education and career development. He had departed, for New York City, but still regularly exhibited in Europe. The art dealer mentioned his most recent show in Mallorca, Spain, and also revealed a price quite unaffordable: I forgot it instantly, that's how out of reach it happened to be.

I had just come out of Julius Meinl am Graben, the luxury supermarket, café, bar and restaurant that an immigrant from Germany recommended. (She recounted her year of living in Melbourne as leading to dissatisfaction with her hometown of 5,000 residents, and pursuing another liveable city closer to home, where she had found employment in hospitality. The pierced nose and friendly demeanour made her memorable.)

The presentation was exquisite, on the macro level as well as the micro. Blue walls, black and white square tile flooring, transparent glass elevators as well as a taupe spiral stairway, a bakery on the 2nd floor, and outdoors seating. And don't get me started on the products... the price tags also featured the flag of the country of produce, which is how I knew that the peach I savoured the next day came from Italy. I browsed marshmallows covered in salted caramel-flavoured chocolate from Belgium, sweet olive oil cakes from Seville, and the store's own blend of coffee with images of Queen Sisi and Mozart.

I had an enjoyable time of drinking my melange that first day, despite finding myself wanting for space and being a bit bemused by the combination of conservative glamour and discernable lip surgery gathered among the women around me. I took selfies and admired the blue and white coffee cup. The tray also came with a small glass of soda water, and a chunk of chocolate cake so delicious, I wanted to return on another day to relish a proper slice.

*Continued in Part 2*